
The Axiom Of Responsibility
Individuals Demonstrate Valid Behavior
By Taking Responsibility
For Themselves And Their Children
This last Monday, Jon and Kate Gosselin announced their separation on their reality show, Jon & Kate Plus 8. This has caused quite a stir, but apparently, their children’s expensive, custom playhouses from Kids Crooked House, which were featured in the same episode, are receiving just as much attention. (”Jon and Kate Plus 8’s Crooked Houses Cost Thousands“)
“‘Within 60 seconds of Kate saying the phrase ‘crooked houses’ on TV last night there were 170,000 visitors to our Web site,’” said Glen Halliday, the owner of Kids Crooked House, the day after the episode aired. “Halliday and his Web developers are still scrambling to process the influx in requests the company has received since last night, but said that so far they are estimating that half a million people logged on to the site yesterday and nearly 7,000 people have requested catalogs as of 10 a.m. ET today.”
The playhouses range in price “from $1,249 for an original model [. . .] to $5,000 for the starting price of a customized home. [. . .] Halliday estimates that the [four] homes delivered to the Gosselin family [. . .] were ‘at least $7,000 a piece.’”
Okay, I get the appeal of the homes, and I see why parents would be excited to give them to their children. In fact, I think Halliday should be commended for coming up with such a creative, innocent, activity-oriented product for children. The only thing that bothers me is why Halliday came up with “crooked houses” in the first place:
Halliday was watching cartoons with his own set of multiples — his now 9-year-old twin boys when he thought of a way to entice them to spend more time outside, an idea that turned into Kids Crooked Houses.
“When we were kids a cardboard box was all we needed,” said Halliday, who also has a 5-year-old daughter with his wife. “But now with five cartoon network channels and everything else, our kids spend so much time sitting on the couch I think their imagination is being force fed to them.”
“That’s how the idea was sparked, by seeing my kids becoming lethargic,” he said. “I kept asking, ‘why aren’t you outside?’ That’s what builds character.”
I am only twenty-something, and I don’t want parents to think that the overstimulated society we are living in requires them to give their children things in order to build their children’s character. Quite the opposite, all children need are rules: My siblings and I were all in high school/middle school before we were allowed to have video games, and our TV viewing was limited to one show of our choice a day, which my mom had to approve of.
She also forced us to play outside, and if we ever complained of boredom, she always replied, “If you’re bored, then I have plenty to keep you occupied. Why don’t you (wash the windows, clean the bathroom, give the dog a bath, etc.)?” Let me tell you, we learned really fast never to complain and, more importantly, how to create our own fun. We played with cardboard boxes, a lot.
Many children today are missing the ability to create their own fun, and I believe that this is partially caused by parents giving their children stuff, instead of having rules and spending quality time with them.
If you have the desire and financial resources to buy your children a “crooked house,” that’s great. However, if you are working two jobs just so you can afford to buy your children a “crooked house,” please remember that material possessions don’t build character or make children good people. I don’t have enough space in this article to list everything it takes, but I can assure you that “stuff” and an environment of entitlement definitely aren’t on it!
Ellie Sherise
Co-Creator of Magna Sententia
Co-Author of Magna Sententia: The Logical Cure for Our Society